QUESTIONNAIRES: INTRODUCTION

Czandra's complex computer matching analysis is not going to make decisions for you but it can select the most suitable partners. We would like you to suggest you allow about 30 minutes to complete the questionnaire and remember there are no good or bad answers. The aim of the questionnaire is to give us an idea about you and your expectations so please be honest with yourself. We assure you of our confidentiality. If while doing the questionnaires, you change your mind, cross out your former answer and underline the right one making it clear which one is correct.

IMPORTANT: Answer all the questions. Question one comprises a selection of 30 reasons for why you would like a partner. Look at the options and select those which are important/true for you. Then try to rank them by giving a figure according to the degree of importance. If only 2 items are selected and both equally important then put 50 beside each. If you select 5 reasons and some are more important than others then your score card may be 35, 25, 18, 10, 6, 6 =100. The more points you give the more important the answer is. You have to distribute all 100 points, no more , no less.

QUESTION 1

WHY DO YOU NEED A HUSBAND?

QUESTION
1.

To have someone to love.
2.

To have someone who would love me.
3.

To have children.
4.

To have a father for my children
5.

To feel like a real woman with a husband who values my beauty

6.

I would like to invest by assets in the right man
7.

To have someone to look after, to cook and clean for.
8.

To appreciate me as a housewife.
9.

To really look after someone, on a daily basis.
10.

To have a sexual partner.
11.

To have someone to look after me.
12.

To manage him.
13.

To have someone who would always stand by me.
14.

Because I need a partner in business.
15.

To have a confidant and an advisor.
16.

To have someone who would be willingly enjoy our life together.
17.

To avoid loneliness.
18.

To bring happiness and optimism.
19.

To improve my living conditions.
20.

To guarantee me an apartment.
21.

To become a part of my husband's interesting and attractive social scene.
22.

To have a handyman in the house.
23.

Because I would like to have a real head of the family.
24.

Because I need someone who could manage me.
25.

Because I need a man I could trust completely.
26.

To create a sense of security.
27.

Because I need a wise adviser.
28.

To prevent loneliness in the future.
29.

To escape from family or parental care.
30.

To have someone I can talk to.
  total 100

QUESTION 2

WHAT CAN A MAN EXPECT FROM YOU WHEN HE BECOMES YOUR HUSBAND

1.... THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS TAKE HIS SIDE.
I. It is hard to say.
2. If he is right, I certainly will!
3. Yes, I will unless I am putting myself at risk.
4.Yes, certainly unless he acts dishonestly.
5. Yes, I will always be on his side

2. ... THAT YOU WILL BECOME A MOTHER TO HIS CHILDREN.
I. Definitely not. I am not interested in man with children.
2. I doubt it. Actually 1am not interested in a man with children.
3. Maybe I will.
4. Yes, I will.

3. ... THAT YOU HAVE FLAT
I. I haven't got a flat of my own.
2. My flat is too small for two. My husband would also have to own something.
3. Yes, I have a flat, its quite basic but I do have one.
4. Yes, I have quite a good place.
5. Yes, I can say I have a luxurious apartment.

4. ... THAT YOU WILL APPRECIATE HIS DILIGENCE AND EFFORTS
I. I believe this is his duty.
2. I am used to managing myself, I don't need to rely on my husband
3. I would like to have a diligent husband, we could make a fortune
4. I would like to see my husband gaining satisfaction from his own efforts

5. ... THAT HE WILL NOT BE LONELY IN THE FUTURE
1. If this is the only reason then it is not enough
2. Marriage is a way of preventing loneliness
3. Of course I will make sure of it.

6. ... THAT YOU WILL SHOW HIM ADMIRATION AND RESPECT
1. I don't think so, flattery is not in my nature
2. If he deserves it
3. Probably yes
4. Certainly yes

7. ... ,,THAT YOU BRING AN ERROTIC ATMOSPHERE INTO HIS LIFE
1. I say definitely no
2. I could try if this was important to him
3. Who knows, maybe
4. Of course

8. ... THAT YOU WILL BRING FEMININITY INTO HIS LIFE
1. I don't know what this means
2. I could try
3. Yes it is natural
4. Of course I believe I have what it takes

9. ... THAT YOU WILL SEE IN HIM THE MAN OF YOUR LIFE
1. These days that's an illusion
2. First of all I must see this man
3. Yes it's possible
4. I would really like him to be

10. ... THAT YOU WILL HELP HIM, BREAK AWAY FROM HIS FAMILY SUPERVISION
1. If it is the only reason for getting married I'm not interested
2. If he is financially dependent on them I doubt we will cope independently.
3. Yes, marriage is quite a good way of breaking away from the family.
4. I don't know if I would like to have a husband who is quarrelling with his family.
5. With my help I am sure, my husband can be independent of her family.

11. ... THAT YOU WILL HELP HIM IN TAKING CARE OF HIS MOTHER OR ANOTHER ELDERLY RELATIVE
1. I don't need a husband with obligations like this
2. No, its his family business not mine
3. At least from time to time, to an extent.
4. It depends on relations between us
5. Yes of course I could help, to the best of my ability

12. ... THAT YOU WILL BE WITH HIM AND CARE FOR HIM, DESPITE HIS ILL HEALTH 
1. Out of the question, I'm looking for a healthy man.
2. He can't count on too much support from me
3. Yes, to an extent
4. Of course I will take good car of my husband

13. ... THAT YOU WILL RUN A FARM WITH HIM
1. I'm not going to any village
2. The farmer or gardener would have enchant me to agree
3. Rather reluctantly I might agree
4. Maybe even yes
5. I could not problem
6. Its my dream

14. ... THAT I COULD MAKE HIS LIFE COLOURFUL
1. To be frank, I really doubt it
2. Its difficult to say
3. Maybe to a certain degree yes
4. yes I feel I could guarantee this to him

15. ... THAT YOU ARE THRIFTY AND CAN SPEND MONEY SENSIBLEY
1. I like to spend money
2. I'm not too careful with money
3. I try to be thrifty
4. Certainly, I am very frugal 

16. ... THAT HE WILL HAVE AN ATTRACTIVE WIFE
1. Unfortunately no
2. Rather yes
3. I think to a certain degree
4. Yes

17. ... THAT YOU COULD BE HIS CONFIDANT AND BE HIS ADVISER.
1. I'm not well suited to this
2. I think he wouldn't find me useful as an adviser
3. I think if necessary I could try to advise him
4. Yes, absolutely he wouldn't be disappointed in me

QUESTION 3 

Your first name

Last name
Passport number
Address for correspondence with postal / zip code
Phone number

Can your phone number be given to our candidates?

    1. Yes
    2. No
E-mail address

Can your phone number be given to our candidates?

    1. Yes
    2. No

 

Date of birth (day/month/year)

1. ... Your marital status
1. Single/spinster.
2. Divorced.
3. Divorced, but church wedding still possible.
4. Widow.
5. In permanent separation (from bed and board).

Do you have any children?

1. Yes
 2. No		  
If yes, how many? List their age and sex.
 
 

Are you responsible for their upbringing?

1. Yes
 2. No		  

2. ... Your education
1.No formal education.
2.Elementary/primary.
3.Vocational school.
4.Secondary / Grammar school but without leaving qualifications/high school graduation.
5.Technical college/ secondary vocational education.
6.Secondary / Grammar school with qualifications/ high school graduation.
7.Post secondary education/
8.College /University without degree.
9.College / University with degree.
10.Post graduate studies (doctorate, etc.)

3. ... Educational profile
1. General
2. Technical
3. Natural sciences / Agricultural
4. Humanistic
5. Economics
6. Artistic
7. Mathematical
8. Chemical
9. Medical.
10. Others.

4. ... Body Build
1. Very slim
2. Slim
3. Average
4. Bigger than average
5. Quite Overweight.
6. Very Overweight,

5. Height (in centimetres please)

6. ... Religion
1. Catholic 2. Believer but not catholic 3. Non believer 4. Atheist

If you would like to write about your spiritual life, you may do so below:

QUESTION 4

About your partner

1. His age

    1. I would like him to be between and years of age.
    2. He should be at least years old but may be a bit younger.
    3. He should be not more than years old but may be a bit older.
    4. He is definitely too young if he is .
    5. He is definitely too old if he is .

2. His height

    1.I would like him to be between and cm tall.
    2.He should be at least cm tall but may be a bit shorter.
    3.He should be not more than cm tall but may be a bit taller.
    4.He is definitely too short if he is  cm tall.
    5.He is definitely too tall if he is  cm tall.

3. His education

1) No formal education:

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Elementary/Primary:

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Vocational school

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

4) Secondary / Grammar school but without leaving qualifications/high school graduation

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

5) Technical college/ secondary vocational education

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

6) Secondary / Grammar school with qualifications/ high school graduation

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

7) Post secondary education/

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

8) College /University without degree

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

9) College /University with degree

1. best of all  2. acceptable  3. I should rather say no  4. It doesn't come into consideration

10) Post graduate (doctorate etc.):

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

4. Partner's marital status

1) Bachelor

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Divorcee

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Divorcee - but church wedding still possible

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

4) Widower

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

5) In permanent separation

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

5. Body Build

1) Very slim:

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Slim:

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Average:

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

4) A bit overweight:

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

5) Very overweight:

1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

6. Would it be acceptable for you if your partner brought up:

1) One child:

1. More than happy. 
2. no problem 
3. it depends
4 . I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Two children:

1. More than happy. 
2. no problem 
3. it depends
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

3) More than two children:

1. More than happy. 
2. no problem 
3. it depends
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

7. His religion

1) Catholic

1.it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Believer but not catholic

1.it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Non Believer

1.it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

4) Atheist

1.it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

QUESTION 5

I expect my husband...

1. To be an emotional person
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

2. To be a good father to my children
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

3. To guarantee a comfortable life
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

4. To have a good apartment
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

5. To have a circle of interesting friends/ acquaintances to introduce me to
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

6. To be good at DIY, doing small repairs at home, etc

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

7. To be handsome

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

8. ... To always be well-mannered

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

9. To always listen to me carefully

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

10. ... Count on your ability and readiness to be decisive

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

11. To become for me a real life support

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

12. To have an insatiable sexual appetite

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

13. To be sexually experienced

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

14. To remember about me during intimate contact

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

15. To be sexually creative

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather he wasn't

16. To accept a relationship without sex

1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something 
4.I don't really care 
5. I would rather he wasn't

QUESTION 6

A man becoming your husband can also...

1. ... Count on your tenderness and emotional support:

1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

2. ... Be sure that you will take care of his children:

1. out of the question 
2. I should rather say no 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

3. ... Count on your attractive appearance:

1. he cannot count on that!
2. Rather not 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

4. ...Count on your sex appeal:

1. definitely not 
2. rather not 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

5. Count on your good material situation:

1. I don't have such connections 
2. rather not 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

6. ...Count your apartment:

1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

7. .Count on introductions to influential and attractive people:

1. in my opinion she cannot 
2. doubt it 
3. to a certain degree - I think so 
4. yes 
5. certainly

8. Expect you to be house proud

1. unfortunately not 
2. to a minimal degree 
3. it is hard to say 
4. yes, I think so 
5. certainly

9. ...Count on your ability to cook:

1. definitely not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends 
4. yes 
5. certainly

10. ... Expect you to be patient in listening to him:

1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (it is hard to presume now) 
4. I think, she can 
5. with no doubt

11. ... That you will create a cheerful, happy atmosphere:

1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

12. ...Expect you to be highly sexed.

1. I'm afraid not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. surely

13. ... Expect you to be very experienced sexually:

1. I'm afraid not 
2. I doubt it 
3. it depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. she need not worry about it

14. ... ... Expect you to be inventive in your sex life:

1. I know nothing about it 
2. I doubt it 
3. it is hard to say at the moment - who knows? 
4. I would like to 
5. certainly

15. ... Expect you to accept a relationship without sex:

1. she had better not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (who knows?) 
4. yes, I think so 
5. she needn't worry

QUESTION 7

However I must admit that.... 

1. I smoke

1. I smoke a lot 
2. I smoke in moderation 
3. I smoke, but I might stop
4. I am just about to stop 
5. I don't smoke

2. Cooking is difficult for me

1. No, I can't cook 
2. It is difficult for me 
3. It depends what I'm cooking 
4. I can and I like to cook 
5. Cooking is my hobby

3. My flat is in a mess

1. Yes almost always
2. Yes often 
3. Sometimes 
4. Rather not 
5. Never

4 I am very religious

1. Yes, very 
2. rather yes 
3. its difficult to say 
4. Rather no 
5. Definitely not

5. It is difficult to say I am interested in cultural life

1. No, I am definitely not interested in it 
2. I don't think about it 
3. Difficult to say 
4. sometimes I go to cinema or theatre 
5. I actively participate in cultural life

6. I am a shy person

1. yes, I am 
2. yes 
3. it is hard to say 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

7. I'm not very feminine

1. I admit I'm not 
2. Rather I'm not 
3. Difficult to say 
4. I am feminine 
5. I'm very feminine

8. I'm often late

1. Unfortunately very often 
2. Often 
3. It does happen 
4. Exceptionally 
5. I'm never late

9. I love parties and having fun

1. definitely yes 
2. rather yes 
3. difficult to say 
4. rather no
5. absolutely no

10. Spending money gives me pleasure

1. yes, it definitely does 
2. Rather yes 
3. sometimes 
4. Rather no 
5. Definitely no, I'm very thrifty

11. . I am against spending money on unnecessary items

1. yes, definitely against 
2. I don't like to waste money 
3. it depends on the occasion 
4. sometimes I like to splash out 
5. I love spending money

12 I am a talkative person

1. yes I am 
2. rather yes 
3. it is hard to say 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

13. I am an introvert

1. yes I am 
2. rather yes 
3. it is hard to say 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

14. Good manners are very important to me

1. Yes, they definitely are 
2. Rather yes. 
3. it is hard to say 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

15. I cannot cope with difficult situations in my life

1. I always have difficulties. 
2. I often can't cope 
3. it is hard to say. 
4. I usually manage 
5. I can cope, no problem

16. I don't have time to take care of my appearance

1. unfortunately I don't take any care of myself 
2. I often have no time
3. sometimes I make an effort
4. I try to look after myself 
5. I take pride in my appearance

17. I am a pessimist

1. Yes, I am. 
2. Probably yes. 
3.It is hard to say 
4. Rather not 
5. Definitely not

18. I am against house pets

1. I cannot tolerate pets 
2. I do not like pets. 
3. it depends 
4. I like pets 
5. I can't imagine a home without pets.

19. I'm very sensitive

1. Very often 
2. Often 
3. Difficult to say 
4. Exceptionally 
5. Never

20. I'm not interested in sewing or knitting

1. I don't know where to begin 
2. When I must I can do minor repairs 
3. When I have time I like to do needlework 
4. I like it
5. I love it

21. I think if someone is guilty they should be severely punished

1. Yes, definitely
2. yes 
3. difficult to say 
4. I would rather forgive 
5. Generally I'm opposed to severe punishment

22. Sometimes I am jealous

1. yes very often 
2. sometimes 
3. only when I have good reason 
4. rather not 
5. no, never

23. I think that trusting people proves you to be naive and stupid.

1. Definitely I think so 
2. One has to be cautions 
3. it depends 
4. the world is not that bad 
5. to the contrary - majority of people in my life are trustworthy

24. My views about sex are in line with that of the church

1. Yes I think that sex should be for procreation only
2. Rather yes 
3.Rather difficult to say 
4. No, I find sex pleasurable, regardless of the church's opinion 
5. Anything goes when it comes to sex

25. I don't have a big sexual appetite

1. I have very few sexual needs 
2. Rather few needs
3. Difficult to say 
4. Sex is important for me 
5. I have a big sexual appetite

26. I want to have children

1. Yes definitely 
2 Rather yes 
3 difficult to say
4 rather no 
5 Definitely no

27. My professional work is the most important to me

1. yes, definitely 
2. sometimes 
3. it is hard to say 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

28. I like to make my point

1. yes, definitely 
2. rather yes 
3. it is hard to say 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

29. I am recently pregnant

1. Yes 
2. No

QUESTION 8

HOW WOULD YOU REACT IF YOUR PARTNER...

1....Smoked:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

2. ...Was no good at housework or cooking:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

3...Postponed till tomorrow what he could do today

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

4. ... Was a messy person:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

5. ...Was very religious:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

6.....Constantly swore

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 6. that's ideal

7.....Didn't like talking affectionately

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

8....Was driven to anger easily, even to the point of hitting a woman

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

9. ... Was not interested in cultural life:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

10. ... Was shy:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

11. ... Loved parties and having fun:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

12. ... Was extravagant with money:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

13...Was too Talkative

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

14...Was reserved

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 5. I would even prefer 
5 . that's ideal

15...Had little sex drive

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

16.....Liked diverse sex

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

17. ... Was very particular about well mannered men:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

18. ... Could not cope with difficult situations:

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

19....Was against having pets

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

20....Was always wanting to be at home

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4. it would not matter to me 
5. I would even prefer 
6. that's ideal

21....Thought that the home should be the run by the woman

1. He would have no chance of becoming my husband 
2. it would be a serious disadvantage 
3. it would be a disadvantage but without exaggeration 
4.