QUESTION 1 –Why do you need a wife?

QUESTION 2

WHAT CAN A WOMAN EXPECT FROM YOU WHEN SHE BECOMES YOUR WIFE

(underline the right answer)

1.... THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS TAKE HER SIDE.
I. It is hard to say.
2. If she is right, I certainly will!
3. Yes, I will unless 1 am putting myself at risk.
4. Yes, certainly unless she acts dishonestly.
5. Yes, I will always be on her side

2.... THAT YOU WILL BECOME A FATHER TO HER CHILDREN.
I. Definitely not. I am not interested in woman with children.
2. I doubt it. Actually 1am not interested in a woman with children.
3. Maybe I will.
4. Yes, I will.

3. ... THAT YOU WILL CREATE A CHEERFUL, HAPPY ATMOSPHERE.
1. To be honest — I doubt it.
2. It is difficult to say.
3. It depends more on her then on me.
4. I think so. I am a good natured person.

4. ... THAT SHE WILL LIVE IN COMFORT.
I. Unfortunately, I can’t guarantee that.
2. It will he enough for basic needs — that’s all for the moment.
3. Yes, I am quiet well off but not wealthy .
4. Yes, I can assure her of a good standard of living.
5. My wife will have whatever she needs.

5. ... THAT YOU HAVE FLAT
I. I haven’t got a flat of my own.
2. My flat is too small for two. My wife would also have to own something.
3. Yes, I have a flat, its quite basic but I do have one.
4. Yes, I have quite a good place.
5. Yes, I can say I have a luxurious apartment.

6. ... THAT YOU WILL INTRODUCE HER TO A NEW, INTERESTING ENVIRONMENT.
1. I don’t think so.
2. Probably. But I am not sure if she will find what I find interesting.
3. Yes, I think so. My social, professional and cultural life is really very attractive.

7. ... THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO REPAIR EVERYTHING AT HOME.
1. Unfortunately not. I have a lot of problems with simple repairs.
2. Rather not. I am not good at tinkering around and I am not keen on it.
3. Yes, I am quite good at DIY.
4. Certainly. I can turn my hand to anything.

8... THAT YOU WILL BE HER GUIDE THROUGHOUT LIFE.
1. It is out of the question. I am not going to guide anyone through their life.
2. I can’t say that it is possible.
3. 1 can try if she wants me to.
4. Yes, I would like such an arrangement.

 9. ... THAT SHE COULD TRUST YOU.
1. It is difficult to say. Life is unpredictable
2. I will do my best.
3. I cannot imagine anything else.

10. ... THAT YOU WILL GIVE HER A SENSE OF SECURITY.
1. It is hard to say. I am not so self assured as to guarantee it for someone else.
2. I will try anyway.
3. I am deeply convinced I will.

11. ... THAT YOU COULD BE HER CONFIDANT AND BE HER ADVISER.
1. Women should have friends to share their secrets with.
2. I don't mind her confiding in me occasionally.
3. It seems obvious to me that I should he my wife’s best friend.

 12. ... THAT THANKS TO MARRIAGE SHE WILL AVOID LONELINESS
1. If this is the only reason she wants to get married— then that’s not good enough for me.
2. Surely, getting married is a way of escaping from loneliness.
3. Certainly, I will guarantee she is never lonely again.

13. ... THAT SHE WILL BE PROTECTED FROM LONELINESS IN OLD AGE.
1. Who knows what the distant future brings?
2. Yes, I think so.
3. Yes, of course. She can count on me.

14. ... THAT –WITH YOU- SHE WILL FEEL LIKE A REAL WOMAN
1. I don’t know what you mean.
2. Is it so important?
3. Yes, probably to an extent.
4. Oh, I dream of it.

15. ... THAT SHE COULD TELL YOU ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING.
1. I don’t like to listen to anyone’s secrets.
2. I would rather avoid being drawn into my wife's secret, but…..
3. Well, yes if it meant so much to her.
4. It is obvious that she will confide in me.

16. ... THAT YOU WILL HELP HER BREAK AWAY FROM HER FAMILY SUPERVISION.
1. If it is the only reason for getting married I’m not interested
2.  If she is financially dependent on them I doubt we will cope independently.
3.  Yes, marriage is quite a good way of’ breaking away from the family.
4. I don’t know if I would like to have a wife who is quarrelling with her family.
5. With my help I am sure, my wife can be independent of her family.

17. ... THAT YOU WILL HAVE A LOT OF TIME FOR HER. AND LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS.
1. I get bored with listening to girl talk.
2.  Why not, however in moderation.
3.  I believe I will.
4. I am sure I would love to

QUESTION 3 (use capital letters please)

Your marital status (underline right answer)
1. Bachelor.
2. Divorced.
3. Divorced, but church wedding still possible.
4. Widower.
5. In permanent separation (from bed and board).

Do you have any children?

Educational profile
1. General
2. Technical
3. Natural sciences / Agricultural
4. Humanistic
5. Economics
6. Artistic
7. Mathmatical
8. Chemical
9. Medical.
10. Others.

Body Build
1. Very slim
2. Slim
3. Average
4. Bigger than average
5. Quite Overweight.
6. Very Overweight,

Height (in centimetres please)

Religion
1. Catholic
2. Believer but not catholic
3. Non believer
4. Atheist

If you would like to write about your spiritual life, you may do so below:


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QUESTION 4

About your partner (insert /underline right answers)

1. Her age:
1. I would like her to be between and years of age.
2. She should be at least years old but may be a bit younger.
3. She should be not more than years old but may be a bit older.
4. She is definitely too young if she is 
5. She is definitely too old if she is 

2. Her height:
1.  I would like her to be between and cm tall.
2. She should be at least cm tall but may be a bit shorter.
3. She should be not more than cm tall but may be a bit taller.
4. She is definitely too short if she is  cm tall.
5. She is definitely too tall if she is  cm tall.

3. Her education

1) No formal education:
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Elementary/Primary:
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Vocational school
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

4) Secondary / Grammar school but without leaving qualifications/high school graduation
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

5) Technical college/ secondary vocational education
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

6) Secondary / Grammar school with qualifications/ high school graduation
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

7) Post secondary education
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

8) College /University without degree
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

9) College /University with degree
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

10) Post graduate (doctorate etc.):
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

4. Partner’s marital status

1) Unmarried woman
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Divorcee
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Divorcee - but church wedding still possible
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

4) Widow
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

5) In permanent separation
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. rather not 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

5.Body Build

1) Very slim:
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Slim:
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Average:
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

4) A bit overweight:
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

5) Very overweight:
1. best of all 
2. acceptable 
3. I should rather say no 
4. It doesn't come into consideration

6. Would it be acceptable for you if your partner brought up:

1) One child:
1. More than happy. 
2. no problem 
3. it depends
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Two children:
1. More than happy. 
2. no problem 
3. it depends
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

3) More than two children:
1. More than happy. 
2. no problem 
3. it depends
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

7. Her religion

1) Catholic
1. it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

2) Believer but not catholic
1. it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

3) Non Believer
1. it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

4) Atheist
1. it is essential for me 
2. I shall be pleased 
3. acceptable 
4. I should rather say no 
5. It doesn't come into consideration

QUESTION 5

I expect my wife... (underline right answers)

1. To be an emotional person
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

2. To be a mother to my children
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

3. To be attractive
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

4. To have sex appeal
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

5. To be well off
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

6. To have a flat suitable for both of us
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

7. To have a circle of interesting friends/ acquaintances to introduce me to
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

9. To be an excellent cook
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

10. To be a person I could confide in
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

12. To be an energetic person:
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

13. To have some sexual experience
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

14. To be open to unconventional proposals concerning sex
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

15. To take the initiative and be sexually creative
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

16. To accept a relationship without sex
1. that's just what I expect
2. it is very important to me
3. it counts for something
4. I don't really care 
5.I would rather she wasn’t

QUESTION 6

A woman becoming your wife can also... (underline right answers)

1... Count on your tenderness and emotional support:
1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

2... Be sure that you will take care of her children:
1. out of the question 
2. I should rather say no 
3. It depends (to a certain degree –I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

3... Count on living in comfort with you:
1. she cannot count on that!
2. Rather not 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

4... Be sure that an apartment will be part of the arrangement:
1. definitely not 
2. rather not 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

5.       ... Count on meeting attractive or valuable people through you:
1. I don't have such connections 
2. rather not 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

6.       ... Count on your DIY ability, doing small repairs at home, etc.:
1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

7.       ... Expect you to be attractive:
1. in my opinion she cannot 
2. doubt it 
3. to a certain degree - I think so 
4. yes 
5. certainly

8.       ... Expect you to always be well-mannered:
1. unfortunately not 
2. to a minimal degree 
3. it is hard to say 
4. yes, I think so 
5. certainly

9.       ... Expect you to be a patient in listening to her:
1. definitely not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends 
4. yes 
5. certainly

10.    ... Count on your ability and readiness to be decisive:
1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (it is hard to presume now) 
4. I think, she can 
5. with no doubt

11.    ... Always rely on you to support her:
1. unfortunately not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (I think so) 
4. yes 
5. certainly

12.    ... Expect you to be an energetic person.
1. I'm afraid not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. surely

13.    ... Expect you to be "sexually fit":
1. I'm afraid not 
2. I doubt it 
3. it depends (to a certain degree - I think so) 
4. yes 
5. she need not worry about it

14.    ... Expect you to pay attention to her sexual needs:
1. I know nothing about it 
2. I doubt it 
3. it is hard to say at the moment - who knows? 
4. I would like to 
5. certainly

15.    ... Expect you to be inventive in your sex life:
1. she had better not 
2. I doubt it 
3. It depends (who knows?) 
4. yes, I think so 
5. she needn't worry

16.    ... Expect you to accept a relationship without sex:
1. definitely not 
2. rather not 
3. it is hard to say at the moment 
4. yes 
5. no problem

QUESTION 7

However I must admit that....  (underline right answers)

1.       I smoke
1. yes, I smoke a lot 
2. yes, I smoke in moderation 
3. I smoke, but I might stop
4. I am just about to stop 
5. I don't smoke

2. I know very little about house keeping
1. I know very little indeed 
2. I don't know much 
3. it is hard to say 
4 .I manage quiet well 
5. I am good at house keeping

3. I prefer to put off till tomorrow what I could do today
1. Yes, always 
2. yes, very often 
3.sometimes 
4. I don't usually delay doing my duties 
5. I never put off anything

4. My flat is in a mess
1. yes, always 
2. yes, very often 
3. sometimes 
4. rather not 
5. never

6. I am very religious.
1. yes, I am 
2. yes 
3. it is hard to say 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

7. I sometimes swear
1. yes, very often 
2. yes, rather often 
3. occasionally 
4. rather not 
5. definitely not

8. I don’t like tender words or nicknames for loved ones
1. I hate it 
2. I don't like it
3. it depends on the situation 
4. I don't mind it 
5. I like it

9. If a woman makes me furious I am able to hit her.
1. definitely yes 
2. rather yes 
3. only in extreme situations 
4. it has never happened to me so far 
5. it is absolutely impossible

10. I think that cinema, theatre, and books are waste of time
1. yes, I definitely do 
2. I am not keen on them 
3. it is hard to say 
4. I sometimes enjoy such entertainment
5. I participate regularly in cultural pursuits

11. I am a shy person
1. yes, I am 
2. rather yes 
3. it is hard to say